💔  Blog topic: Talking about the word "Hateful" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Friday, 9/29/23!! 💔 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are never alone in this battle and I'm always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday!! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday's blog episode, I analyzed my poem "Giving others kindness". When you see someone down in the dumps or they are having a hard time in life, you want to spread kindness and love to them and for me, I just want to spread love and kindness because everyone deserves someone in their life being kind and having love as well! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check this blog episode out, the blog is called Analyzing my poem "Giving others kindness" by Brandee Marie Darden! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all! Now, moving on with a new blog episode for today! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the word "Hateful". In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the word "hateful" or "hate", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? When someone is being hateful towards someone that I love or being hateful towards my blogs, how does that make me feel? Why does that make me feel a certain way? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about being hateful, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's get into our blogging imagination and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about the words "hateful" or "hate". What do I think about those words? Why do I think about those words like that? 

Talking about the words "hateful" or "hate". What do I think about those words? My honest thoughts about those words are disgusting and how awful they are! It's okay to hate on certain things but when it comes to family or friends or when you say to a family member, "I hate you", it is honestly hurtful and disrespectful! When I told a family member that I hated them, I instantly regret it because I don't want to hate on them and I don't want nothing bad to them! We go through hate in this world on a daily basis and that is just wrong!! I pray that one day, we can live in a world where it can be peaceful and where we can love one another!! Why do I think about those words like that? The reason why I think about those words like that is because we live in a world where everyone can hate on each other and everyone is mean to each other which is not right at all! I pray that one day, people can learn how to love one another and know how to not be cruel to one another as well! We need more world peace, not hate!!! 

What comes to mind when I think about word "hateful" or "hate". 

When I think about the word "hateful" or "hate", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "hateful" or "hate", I think about people who are very hateful towards another person or when someone says to another person "I hate you". I don't like when someone says that and I know that I have said it before and I regret saying that to my sister! We should never be hateful to one another because something could happen to that person or even to yourself and it would be awful if you said that to the person who you love! Words can have a positive impact or a negative impact, but in this case , a negative impact and if we told someone we hate them or did something that was hateful, we are going to regret doing that thing or saying to someone "I hate you" for the rest of our lives! We should never do something that is out of spite or say we hate one another! Let's treat each other with respect and be nice to one another!! 

Why?

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it come to mind like that is because I don't like how this world can be so hateful and how people can hate other people for what they like or what their dreams are! For me, this world has become hateful and I think it is wrong for others to disrespect other people! For me, this world has become nothing but full of hate or crime! There is a lot of hate crime and crime in general and it is scary but I pray that one day, this world can find God and believe in God because I love God and I am tired of people being ugly to one another! We need to learn how to be nice to one another and treat others with respect because if someone treats me with disrespect or anyone else that I love with disrespect, I will find out and I won't be happy!! Trust me! When people disrespects me, it won't be pretty in what I do and I will stand up for the people who I love!! I will even stand up for me because I am not afraid for standing up for myself anymore!!! I'm a warrior and I have an army behind me who will stand behind me, no matter what!!

My feelings on when someone being hateful towards I love or my blogs!! 

When someone is being hateful towards someone that I love or being hateful towards my blogs, how does that make me feel? When someone is being hateful towards someone that I love, I would stand up to that person who is being hateful to anyone that I love who is either my family, friends, or even my boyfriend! I am not going to tolerate anyone being hateful towards the people that I love! Now, when someone is being hateful towards my blogs, I am going to stand up for my blogs as well because I work hard on these blogs day in and day out! These blogs have meaning to them! Some of these blogs are based on true stories! If anyone disrespects my blogs, I will be upset and I will stand up for my blogs! I had someone in my family called my blogs "depressing" and honestly, it hurt but I know in the back of my mind, they are not depressing and I know that they have meaning to them and I don't care if people call them "depressing" or not because I know that they are not and I know that people understand where I am coming from!!!

Why?

Why does that make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because when you do something hateful towards the people who I care about I love, I am going to stand up for them! I am not going to let the people who is being hateful towards the person who I love standing on their own and handle their battle on their own! Nope! I am not going to leave that person hanging! When someone is being hateful towards my blogs, it hurts me a little bit and here is why? The reason why it hurts me because I work hard on these blogs and I pour my heart and soul into these blogs and when someone in my family said they are "depressing", it made me upset because I try not to make my blogs depressing but if people see it that way, then I am sorry but I am trying to tell my story and try to tell it from my point a view and if people don't like it, that's their problem, not my problem!!! I work hard on these blogs and I am proud of my blogs!! 

My advice!! 

If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about being hateful, what is my advice? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about being hateful, my advice is treat others how you want to be treated! If you want to be hateful towards that person, then that person is going to be hateful towards you as well!! Treat others with respect and be kind to one another! Being hateful to someone who is has been nice to you isn't going to take you far in life! Being hateful towards that person is going to hurt them and you being hurtful to that person is going to make them realize that they don't need you need as a friend and you don't need friends are hateful!!! Be kind to one another and treat others with respect!!

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because there is a lot of hate in this world and I don't want people being mean to one another and treating one another with hate in their heart! I feel we should never hate one another because it will bring us down as human beings and not other that, we should always treat each other with respect instead of hate because we don't know what that person is going through and we should always be there for that person, no matter what! If someone needs us, we should be there for them and I think we should be there for them, no matter what!! Always be there for the person who needs you the most!!

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, there is people who are very hateful and very disrespectful and that's okay because people are going to be like that and some people are even rude and don't care about others feeling at all! Find people who will treat you with respect and be there for you, no matter what! No matter how nice you are to that person, that person might treat you with disrespect and if that person is being mean and hateful towards you, you don't need that type a person in your life and you don't need people who are rude in your life! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is don't be hateful towards the people who you love because they are here for you and if you be rude and hateful towards them, chances are they are leaving you hanging and they don't need you anymore!! Don't be hateful towards people who love and care about you! Remember that!! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! Don't be rude and hateful towards people who you love because if you are putting towards hatred to the people who you love and care about, it is showing them that you never loved and cared for them and that's sad! Learn how to be nice and respectful towards others who have loved and cared about you throughout your life! Please, get rid of hate in your heart because that hate can be carry forever and forever and we don't need that!! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: In Psalm 37:7, it says "God Always Gives His Best To Those Who Leave The Choice With Him". I love this bible verse of day a lot because when you have faith in God, you believe in him with all your heart and soul! When you give your life to God, it is showing you that you can believe in him and you can always believe in God, no matter what! Always believe in God because he can bless you in so many ways! I love y'all so much and I hope everyone will have a great weekend ahead or is having a good weekend ahead! Have a happy Friday or in other countries, a happy Saturday and I will see y'all on my 2nd blog page where I will be talking about dealing with someone who has mental health issues, my favorite things about fall, and analyzing my poem "Don't let the voices knock you down". Stay tuned for those blogs and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all next week! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ☮✌💜 

Today's bible verse of the day!! Love this bible verse a lot! Such a good bible verse!! 

"You gotta look for 
the good in the bad, the 
happy in the sad, the 
gain in your pain, and 
what makes you grateful
not hateful".
-Karen Salmansohin-. I absolutely love this quote so much because we are going to have days where they are ugly, but you need to look for things that make you happy! We need to be grateful for what we have, not hateful!! Don't be hateful!!! 

"Someone who hates
one group will end up
hating everyone- and, 
ultimately, hating 
himself or herself".
-Elie Wiesel. I find this quote relatable because when you hate someone, they are going to end up hating themselves and it's not nice to hating someone who didn't do anything to you! Treat people with kindness!! 

"Some people don't like you 
just because your strength
reminds them of their 
weakness. Don't let the hate
slow you down".
-Unknown. I love this quote a lot because don't let other people's weakness or their hate slow you down but instead, let their hate be your motivation! That's the best thing!!! 

To end today's blog episode, for this week's song of the week, I chose "Love Die Young" by Eric Nam which I did a blog about it on Monday! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! I absolutely love this song so much because this song tells a story and the song is so soft and I love it so much!!