♡  Blog topic: Me and Aaron's friendship anniversary!! by: Brandee Marie Darden! Wednesday, 9/6/23! 💙 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that comes to mind whether it is talking about my poems or even songs that I like! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that I am here for y'all if y'all need anything! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about helping others! Couples edition! I believe in helping your partner out and I believing in hyping your partner up as well! No matter what they are going through, just help them the best way that you can! If y'all haven't read that blog and would love to check it out, the blog is called "Talking about helping others! Couples edition". Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! Now, today's blog episode is extra special because on this blog episode, I will be talking about me and Aaron's friendship anniversary! On this blog, I will be talking about in honor of our friendship, how has our friendship change? Why has our friendship change like that? What has been my favorite part about our friendship? Why is that part my favorite about our friendship? If I have any advice about getting into an relationship with your friend, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's get our blogging imagination on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

How did we first met? Why did we meet that way? 

How did we first met? Me and my boyfriend, Aaron met through a mutual friend on Instagram! He came into my dms and private message me on Instagram and then, we moved from Instagram through snapchat! The first reaction when he messaged me was "should I message him back" and I surely did! I don't regret messaging him back or anything like that because as time goes on, my feelings became strong for him and I feel like in my head, I could see myself with this guy and I knew that God had sent him in my life!! Why did we meet that way? I think we met that way is because it was God telling me "This is the guy for you! If you don't talk to him, some girl will steal him away" and I am glad that we started talking about becoming closer with each other! He is an amazing person and I wouldn't trade it for the world!! 

Friendship changed!! 

In honor of our friendship, how has our friendship change? I think Aaron's and I friendship has changed a lot! We went from talking from everyday to video chatting every Monday and Friday and on top of that, we are boyfriend and girlfriend! That changed a year ago but to me, he will always be my best friend! I will always have that in my mind that he will always be my best friend and the best boyfriend in the world! I think our friendship changed a lot but in a good way!! I'm happy to be with him and I know that he is happy to be with me!!

Why? 

Why has our friendship change like that? I think the reason why our friendship has changed like that is because I think through the course of our friendship, we started to get feelings for one another and I feel like for him, he was "I want her to be mine" and he wasn't giving up and for me, I was hesitant at first because I was broken up which was hard but he understood! He never stopped being there for me and he will never stop being there for me which I love about him! He has this trait in him that I love where he will stop anything to make sure that person is okay and I love that about him! He is also funny which I also love about him! I never had made me laugh so hard until I met Aaron and he changed my life for the better! I'm glad that I have someone who is my best friend and the best boyfriend ever!

My favorite part of our friendship!!  

What has been my favorite part about our friendship? I think my favorite part of our friendship is getting to know him more and more everyday and how he can make me laugh! For me, I think getting to know someone and getting to know how they are can be good or bad but for me, getting to know Aaron has been amazing! He is different from any guy that interacted with and he knows how to make me laugh which I think is very important when it comes to friendship and relationship! When I was getting to know him, I was thinking to myself "man, he is different from the guys that I met! Where was he when I needed someone". Most guys wouldn't care about me but for Aaron, he cares about me and he wants to make sure that I'm okay which I love about him! I think for me, he is protective when it comes to me! The way we joke around and the way he makes laugh is the best medicine for me! He is so funny in so many ways that I only know and the people he knows know!! 

Why? 

Why is that part my favorite about our friendship? The reason why getting to know him and how he can make me laugh is my favorite part of our friendship is because when you are getting to know a person, you know what their personality is like or what kind of person they are or how funny they are and for me, I found out very quickly how he can be a caring person and how funny he can be! In my eyes, he is so funny and he will pray for the people he cares about which I love! I love how he is a Christian guy because most guys that I can think of doesn't care about church but with Aaron, he is a big part of his church and I love that about him! He is such a caring and such a charismatic guy which you don't find in a lot of guys! I am so blessed that I can be his best friend and the best boyfriend in the world!! 

My advice! 

If I have any advice about getting into an relationship with your friend, what is my advice? To my Blogger Dreamers who have a crush on their guy best friend or girl best friend, here is my advice: Make sure he or she likes you! If he or she likes you, then that is a good thing! If he or she is caring, makes you laugh, and helps you get through anything that you are going through even if you told them to leave you alone and they stayed, then they are a keeper! I told my boyfriend to leave me alone and stay away from me, but he stayed by my side and I knew he was a keeper in the beginning!! I knew how much he cared about me and I knew we were meant to be together but I didn't know how he would handle me with my mental health issues and my anger but to this day, he stayed by my side! If you have a guy friend or girl friend that is very caring, keep them because that is hard to keep these days and there isn't a lot of guys or girls who aren't caring and that's very sad!!

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I don't want my Blogger Dreamers to feel like they are in a one sided love because if you are in a one sided love where you love your guy or girl best friend and they don't love you in a romantic way, then chances are they are not into which is hard to handle but someone out there will love for you for who you are and will be there for you no matter what! Don't be stuck in a one sided love because those are hard and I don't want any of my Blogger Dreamers to be in a one sided love! If that person loves you and you love them, chances are y'all are meant to be and y'all might be together forever!! Don't give up hope!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, happy 3 year friendship to my best friend and to the best boyfriend in the world! Aaron, you came into my life unexpectedly and I am so blessed that God gave me in to put in my life! Happy 3 years of friendship! Cheers to many years!! When you have a friendship and then, it becomes a relationship, that is the best kind! When you become friends with someone and they have a crush on you, you start to realize if y'all are meant to be together and in the back of your mind, we are! I told my boyfriend one time that we were just meant to be best friends and nothing more but God had more in store for me because last year, my best friend became my boyfriend which I am so blessed that he did! The way he cares about me and the way he makes me laugh, I feel like I don't deserve him but in my head, I do! I am so blessed that I have someone who I can talk to about anything that comes to church or just talk with in general! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is don't be stuck in a one sided love! If your guy friend or girl friend doesn't like you in a romantic way, then find someone who loves you for who you are because you deserve someone who will treat you well and be there for you through your hard times! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind y'all that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode because I know that I did! This blog isn't just a normal blog to me but this blog is special to me! 3 years ago today, my boyfriend became my best friend and seeing our friendship grow and blossomed each and everyday is a blessing within itself!! Having him in my life has been the best thing ever! I am so happy that he is my best friend but also my boyfriend who can make me laugh everyday!! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "What doesn't fit you always become a problem". -Lee Geun Young! I love this quote because when nothing fits you or the clothing becomes to big, then you just have to go shopping or when you have a conflict with someone and you don't know how to handle the situation, you try to handle it in your own way which is walking away and that is the best way to handle it! I love y'all and I hope everyone will have a happy Wednesday or in other countries, a happy Thursday and I will see y'all on my next blog episode! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and stay fabulous and stay you! I love y'all! Peace! ☮✌💙

Today's quote of the day! Such a good quote!!! 

"Find someone who wants 
to invest in you, learn from
you, see you win, support your
visions, and fall in love
with you daily".
-Unknown! Such a relatable quote because throughout me and my boyfriend's talk, I was thinking to myself "I feel like I found someone who can support me" and I did! When I do my blogs or tiktoks, he always wishes me good luck and I am blessed to have someone like him!! 

My tiktok video that I did about me and my bf's relationship changed over the years? I feel like it has changed over the years but in a good way! I am happy that he is best friend and someone who I can be with for the rest of my life! Such a huge blessing in my life!! 

"The best relationships are 
the ones that are 
based on friendships
Be friends first".
-Unknown! I love this quote so much because before you get into a relationship, become friends first because when you become friends with that person, it will grow as a relationship! Be friends first! Don't jump into things to quickly!!