💔  Blog topic: Talking about the word "Hateful" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Friday, 9/29/23!! 💔 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are never alone in this battle and I'm always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday!! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday's blog episode, I analyzed my poem "Giving others kindness". When you see someone down in the dumps or they are having a hard time in life, you want to spread kindness and love to them and for me, I just want to spread love and kindness because everyone deserves someone in their life being kind and having love as well! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check this blog episode out, the blog is called Analyzing my poem "Giving others kindness" by Brandee Marie Darden! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all! Now, moving on with a new blog episode for today! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the word "Hateful". In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the word "hateful" or "hate", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? When someone is being hateful towards someone that I love or being hateful towards my blogs, how does that make me feel? Why does that make me feel a certain way? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about being hateful, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's get into our blogging imagination and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about the words "hateful" or "hate". What do I think about those words? Why do I think about those words like that? 

Talking about the words "hateful" or "hate". What do I think about those words? My honest thoughts about those words are disgusting and how awful they are! It's okay to hate on certain things but when it comes to family or friends or when you say to a family member, "I hate you", it is honestly hurtful and disrespectful! When I told a family member that I hated them, I instantly regret it because I don't want to hate on them and I don't want nothing bad to them! We go through hate in this world on a daily basis and that is just wrong!! I pray that one day, we can live in a world where it can be peaceful and where we can love one another!! Why do I think about those words like that? The reason why I think about those words like that is because we live in a world where everyone can hate on each other and everyone is mean to each other which is not right at all! I pray that one day, people can learn how to love one another and know how to not be cruel to one another as well! We need more world peace, not hate!!! 

What comes to mind when I think about word "hateful" or "hate". 

When I think about the word "hateful" or "hate", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "hateful" or "hate", I think about people who are very hateful towards another person or when someone says to another person "I hate you". I don't like when someone says that and I know that I have said it before and I regret saying that to my sister! We should never be hateful to one another because something could happen to that person or even to yourself and it would be awful if you said that to the person who you love! Words can have a positive impact or a negative impact, but in this case , a negative impact and if we told someone we hate them or did something that was hateful, we are going to regret doing that thing or saying to someone "I hate you" for the rest of our lives! We should never do something that is out of spite or say we hate one another! Let's treat each other with respect and be nice to one another!! 

Why?

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it come to mind like that is because I don't like how this world can be so hateful and how people can hate other people for what they like or what their dreams are! For me, this world has become hateful and I think it is wrong for others to disrespect other people! For me, this world has become nothing but full of hate or crime! There is a lot of hate crime and crime in general and it is scary but I pray that one day, this world can find God and believe in God because I love God and I am tired of people being ugly to one another! We need to learn how to be nice to one another and treat others with respect because if someone treats me with disrespect or anyone else that I love with disrespect, I will find out and I won't be happy!! Trust me! When people disrespects me, it won't be pretty in what I do and I will stand up for the people who I love!! I will even stand up for me because I am not afraid for standing up for myself anymore!!! I'm a warrior and I have an army behind me who will stand behind me, no matter what!!

My feelings on when someone being hateful towards I love or my blogs!! 

When someone is being hateful towards someone that I love or being hateful towards my blogs, how does that make me feel? When someone is being hateful towards someone that I love, I would stand up to that person who is being hateful to anyone that I love who is either my family, friends, or even my boyfriend! I am not going to tolerate anyone being hateful towards the people that I love! Now, when someone is being hateful towards my blogs, I am going to stand up for my blogs as well because I work hard on these blogs day in and day out! These blogs have meaning to them! Some of these blogs are based on true stories! If anyone disrespects my blogs, I will be upset and I will stand up for my blogs! I had someone in my family called my blogs "depressing" and honestly, it hurt but I know in the back of my mind, they are not depressing and I know that they have meaning to them and I don't care if people call them "depressing" or not because I know that they are not and I know that people understand where I am coming from!!!

Why?

Why does that make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because when you do something hateful towards the people who I care about I love, I am going to stand up for them! I am not going to let the people who is being hateful towards the person who I love standing on their own and handle their battle on their own! Nope! I am not going to leave that person hanging! When someone is being hateful towards my blogs, it hurts me a little bit and here is why? The reason why it hurts me because I work hard on these blogs and I pour my heart and soul into these blogs and when someone in my family said they are "depressing", it made me upset because I try not to make my blogs depressing but if people see it that way, then I am sorry but I am trying to tell my story and try to tell it from my point a view and if people don't like it, that's their problem, not my problem!!! I work hard on these blogs and I am proud of my blogs!! 

My advice!! 

If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about being hateful, what is my advice? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about being hateful, my advice is treat others how you want to be treated! If you want to be hateful towards that person, then that person is going to be hateful towards you as well!! Treat others with respect and be kind to one another! Being hateful to someone who is has been nice to you isn't going to take you far in life! Being hateful towards that person is going to hurt them and you being hurtful to that person is going to make them realize that they don't need you need as a friend and you don't need friends are hateful!!! Be kind to one another and treat others with respect!!

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because there is a lot of hate in this world and I don't want people being mean to one another and treating one another with hate in their heart! I feel we should never hate one another because it will bring us down as human beings and not other that, we should always treat each other with respect instead of hate because we don't know what that person is going through and we should always be there for that person, no matter what! If someone needs us, we should be there for them and I think we should be there for them, no matter what!! Always be there for the person who needs you the most!!

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, there is people who are very hateful and very disrespectful and that's okay because people are going to be like that and some people are even rude and don't care about others feeling at all! Find people who will treat you with respect and be there for you, no matter what! No matter how nice you are to that person, that person might treat you with disrespect and if that person is being mean and hateful towards you, you don't need that type a person in your life and you don't need people who are rude in your life! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is don't be hateful towards the people who you love because they are here for you and if you be rude and hateful towards them, chances are they are leaving you hanging and they don't need you anymore!! Don't be hateful towards people who love and care about you! Remember that!! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! Don't be rude and hateful towards people who you love because if you are putting towards hatred to the people who you love and care about, it is showing them that you never loved and cared for them and that's sad! Learn how to be nice and respectful towards others who have loved and cared about you throughout your life! Please, get rid of hate in your heart because that hate can be carry forever and forever and we don't need that!! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: In Psalm 37:7, it says "God Always Gives His Best To Those Who Leave The Choice With Him". I love this bible verse of day a lot because when you have faith in God, you believe in him with all your heart and soul! When you give your life to God, it is showing you that you can believe in him and you can always believe in God, no matter what! Always believe in God because he can bless you in so many ways! I love y'all so much and I hope everyone will have a great weekend ahead or is having a good weekend ahead! Have a happy Friday or in other countries, a happy Saturday and I will see y'all on my 2nd blog page where I will be talking about dealing with someone who has mental health issues, my favorite things about fall, and analyzing my poem "Don't let the voices knock you down". Stay tuned for those blogs and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all next week! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ☮✌💜 

Today's bible verse of the day!! Love this bible verse a lot! Such a good bible verse!! 

"You gotta look for 
the good in the bad, the 
happy in the sad, the 
gain in your pain, and 
what makes you grateful
not hateful".
-Karen Salmansohin-. I absolutely love this quote so much because we are going to have days where they are ugly, but you need to look for things that make you happy! We need to be grateful for what we have, not hateful!! Don't be hateful!!! 

"Someone who hates
one group will end up
hating everyone- and, 
ultimately, hating 
himself or herself".
-Elie Wiesel. I find this quote relatable because when you hate someone, they are going to end up hating themselves and it's not nice to hating someone who didn't do anything to you! Treat people with kindness!! 

"Some people don't like you 
just because your strength
reminds them of their 
weakness. Don't let the hate
slow you down".
-Unknown. I love this quote a lot because don't let other people's weakness or their hate slow you down but instead, let their hate be your motivation! That's the best thing!!! 

To end today's blog episode, for this week's song of the week, I chose "Love Die Young" by Eric Nam which I did a blog about it on Monday! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! I absolutely love this song so much because this song tells a story and the song is so soft and I love it so much!! 

Analyzing my poem "Giving others kindness" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Wednesday, 9/27/23!!

                                                💛 Blog topic: Analyzing my poem "Giving others kindness" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Wednesday, 9/27/23!! 💛 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about whatever I want to talk about from fashion or makeup or even personal things like bullying or kindness!! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that no one is never alone and that I am always here for y'all no matter what! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Before I get into today's blog episode, let's do a recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about the song "Love Die Young" by Eric Nam, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! When I think about that song, I think about a relationship between a guy and a girl who at one point, they loved each other but they stopped loving each other which is sad! Sometimes, couples do fall out of love and I think in my mind, the reason why they fall out of love is because they don't communicate enough which is sad! Always communicate with your partner that way they can help you!! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, the blog is called "Talking about the song "Love Die Young" by Eric Nam, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Giving others kindness" by: Brandee Marie Darden! In this blog, I will be talking about what is the importance of giving others kindness? Why is it important to give others kindness? What does kindness mean to me? Why does kindness mean to me like that? What are 3 ways to spread kindness? Why are those 3 ways to spread kindness? If I have any advice to give about kindness or spreading kindness, what is my advices? Why would I give those advices to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's get into our blog imagination and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about my poem! What is my poem about? Why did I write this poem about? 

On Thursday, July 6th of this year, I wrote a poem called "Giving others kindness" and here is how it goes: "Giving others kindness" by Brandee Marie Darden! 

"Giving others 

kindness is 

special because 

if you spread 

kindness around 

the world,

it can make millions

of people around the

world! When you 

spread kindness, 

it helps people!

Always spread 

kindness and Love 

because it 

can help a lot 

of people! 

Always spread 

kindness and Love"!

-Love, 

Brandee Marie Darden. Date that is was written on: Thursday, July 6th, 2023! What is my poem about? My poem is all about spreading kindness and love around the world or even one person! I believe spreading love and kindness can change someone's life! Always spread kindness and love!! Kindness and love can change a person or even millions of people's life and I always believe to share love and kindness around the world because it can help tons of people! If you can help one or more people, then you are doing your job right!!! Why did I write this poem about? The reason why I wrote my poem about spreading kindness and love around the world or even one person is because people are cruel these days and if you can help someone with what they are going through, then you are doing your job right and that's great!! People are so mean and we need more nice people in this world!! 

The importance of giving others kindness!! 

What is the importance of giving others kindness? I think the importance of giving others kindness is be there for one another the way we should be there for one another! I think we should always be there for one another and help anyone who needs help! I feel like everyone deserves kindness and if you see someone having a bad day, spread some kindness to them! Maybe your love and kindness can help someone brighten your day and if that person seems happy, maybe you brighten their day and that is important!! 

Why?

Why is it important to give others kindness? The reason why it is important to give others kindness is because when someone is having a bad day, they don't want to be around people but if you go up to that person and you say something that might of brighten their day, they are going to remember that forever and forever! When you say something that might of brighten their day or you did something that brighten their day, they are never going to forget it and that is important for a person! Sharing love and kindness will always be important to me and I think everyone deserves that love and kindness! It might be a bad day but it is not a bad life!! People might be bringing you down but you can always get back up because I believe in my Blogger Dreamers!!! 

Kindness means to me? 

What does kindness mean to me? Kindness means to me when you support one another and cheering them on or helping that person who is having a bad day! For me, when someone needs support or cheering up or even me helping someone who is having a bad day, I want to make sure that person is happy and I want to make sure that they are loved! I have always been this person who wants to see others happy and if I can make someone happy, then I am doing my job right! I care about others happiness and I don't like seeing others sad because if I see someone sad, I will be sad and I don't want that person sad! I want them happy!! 

Why kindness? 

Why does kindness mean to me like that? The reason why kindness mean to me like that because everyone deserves to have someone who will cheer them on or even support them or make sure that person is happy! If I see someone not having a good day, I will do anything in my power to make them happy! I want people to be happy and not sad! I don't like when people not having a good day! I want people to have a good day and not a bad day! I want people to smile not be grumpy! Life is too short to be not happy or even sad! Help people get through a bad because if you help someone get through a bad day, then you did good!! 

3 Ways to spread kindness!! 

What are 3 ways to spread kindness to one person to another? The 1st way to spread kindness to one person to another is spread affirmation!!! Tell that person that they are doing such an amazing job in life and tell them that they are doing amazing! The 2nd way to spread kindness to one another person is if you see that person struggling, help them out by being there for them and reminding them that they are good enough! I don't like when a person is struggling and I believe that if you remind them that they are good enough, they will be happy and it will help them in a long run! The 3rd and final way to spread kindness to one person to another is show that person they are loved! Sometimes, a person can feel lonely and sad and sometimes, they can get in their heads by thinking that they are not loved and that's not true! I will always love y'all no matter what! God also loves you as well! If you think you don't have you loves you but you're wrong! I love you and God does love you as well!! Don't y'all ever forget that!! 

Why?

Why are those 3 way to spread kindness to one person to another? The 1st way to spread kindness to one person to another is spread affirmation and the reason why that is one way to spread kindness is because when you remind someone that they are doing a good job, it will help that person get through what they are going through on a daily basis and it will make them happy!! The 2nd way to spread kindness to one person to another is if you see that person struggling, help them out by being there for them and reminding them that they are good enough and the reason why that is the 2nd way to spread kindness to one person to another is because sometimes, people can get in their head and they think "I'm not doing a good job" or for me "What if they don't like my blog", it can give that person reassurance to that person and it can remind them that you are good enough and that you are doing a good job! You should be proud of yourself because you are doing such an amazing job and you're trying! Just in case no one hasn't told you this today, I'm proud of you! I see you trying! Please, don't give up! Always keep trying!! I love y'all! The 3rd and final way to spread kindness to one person to another is to show that person that they are loved and the final reason why that is the 3rd way to spread kindness to one person to another is because sometimes, people don't feel loved by the people around them or in their family and to me, that is sad! If you show them that they are loved by you or someone else, they will always feel loved by you! God also loves you as well and you can never forget that! God will always love, no matter what and don't forget that!

My advice about kindness or spreading kindness! 

If I have any advice to give about kindness or spreading kindness, what is my advices? If I have any advice about kindness, my advice is treat people with kindness! Help that person through whatever they are going through! Always treat people with kindness! My advice about spreading kindness is I think it is very important to spread kindness to one another and help others out, no matter what! Spreading kindness around the world or even in your community, it can go along way! When you put a smile on someone's face, you did amazing job and you should be proud of yourself! Kindness can go along way and you being kind to someone can go along way as well! Help others the way you want to be helped! Always help the person who needs help! 

Why?

Why would I give those advices to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give those advices to my Blogger Dreamers is because being kind to one another can go along way and helping someone is struggling, it can help another person as well! If you show others that you are always there for them and showing that kindness can go along way, it will show them that kindness will always come and it doesn't cost nothing to be kind at all! It doesn't cost people to be kind one another and just show people that you will always support them, no matter what! Be kind to one another!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day/ Challenge of the day!! 

In closing, always spread kindness anywhere you go! Spread kindness to someone who might need it! Be kind to someone who is worth being kind to! If someone is being mean to you, they don't deserve your kindness at all! Show someone that you love them and that you will always be there for them, no matter what! God doesn't like ugly and God wouldn't want you to be ugly to someone! Instead of being mean to someone, spread kindness to someone who truly deserves it and show that if someone is being mean to you, take it with a grain of salt and move on because you don't deserve someone to treat you like crap! Here is my tip and challenge of the day!! My tip of the day is it doesn't cost nothing to be kind and show people that kindness is important! Show people that being kind isn't bad and show people that you will always be there for them, no matter what!! Here is my challenge of the day: My challenge of the day is tell the people either around you or the people who you talk to on a daily basis that you either like about them or tell them something that is kind by you! I love y'all and spread kindness everywhere you go!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog for today! It doesn't cost nothing to be kind to one another and if you show someone how much you care about them, it will show that person that are loved and that you are kind to them! Kindness doesn't cost nothing and if you show people you can be kind, then your kindness can go everywhere! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: In Psalm 27:1, it says "The Lord is my light and my salvation whom shall I fear"? I love today's bible verse of the day because God is my light and salvation! God saved me from my darkest times and he can save you from your darkest times as well! I hope and pray that my Blogger Dreamers will have a good day or had a good day! Have a happy Wednesday or in other countries, a happy Thursday and I will see y'all on Friday where I will be talking about the word "hateful". Always remember "Dream Big! Don't Give Up On Your Dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog episode! Peace!! ☮✌💛

Today's bible verse of the day and I also used this bible verse on my painting that I did last night!! I love this bible verse so much! Such a good bible verse!! 

My poem that I did about "Giving others kindness". Always spread kindness to others, even if they are having a bad day!!! 

"You never know 
what someone is 
going through. 
Be kind.
Always".
-Unknown! I find this quote very relatable because you don't know what that person go through and you don't know how a person is feeling, so always be kind to another, no matter what!! 

"Kindness begins 
with the 
understanding 
that we all 
struggle".
-Charles 
Glassman! I love this quote a lot because we don't need to judge what a person is going through because what if they are going through tough and people need to understand that if you see a person struggling, be kind to that person because your kindness can go along way and you can make a person feel loved!! Don't judge someone! Be there for someone and be kind!!! 

                                             💔 Blog topic: Talking about the song "Love Die Young" by Eric Nam, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Monday, 9/25/23!! 💔 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers and we meet again! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that comes to my mind whether it is about fashion, makeup, or personal matter like love or even long distance relationships!! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know you are never alone in this battle and I will always have your back, no matter what! Y'all are loved and I love y'all so much! Before I get into today and this week's blog episodes, let's do a recap of last week's blog episodes!! On Monday, I talked about the song "Praying" by Kesha, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Every time I listen to this song, I think about the people who damaged me but they made me realize that I can do much better without them and I am praying that they are praying because only God can forgive them!! On Wednesday, I talked about the words "reaching out"! It takes two people to reach out to one another! Not one person do all the reaching out and I have done the reaching out a lot and it get tiring after a little while! On Friday, I talked about my poem "Don't let the world knock you down". This world can knock you down so many times but you need to show people how strong you are and how you can get through life! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, you can check them out at "brandeelovestoblog21.blogspot.com". For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about the song "Love Die Young" by Eric Nam, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, analyzing my poem "Giving others kindness", and talking about the word "Hateful". Now, without any further ado, let's get into our blogging imagination and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about this blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the song "Love Die Young" by Eric Nam, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! In this blog episode, I will be talking how can I relate to this song to my life? Why can I relate to this song to my life? What lyrics are more relatable to me? Why are those lyrics relatable to me? If I have any advice about saving a love between someone, what would my advice be? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about this blog episode? The reason why I choose to talk about this blog episode is because sometimes, love can die and sometimes, you can save love but sometimes, you can't save love which can be hard at times but at the end of the day, you need to move on from a relationship if you can't save it!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "Love Die Young" by Eric Nam! The lyrics are very meaningful and this song holds a lot of meaning! Love can die and it is not good when you love someone and all of sudden, they stopped loving you which is hard! I had that happen to me before and it hurts so much but you have to do  what's best for you and make yourself happy!! Why did I choose this song for the week? I chose this song for the week because I know what is like to try to save a relationship or even a friendship but when you did so much for that person and you can't do anything else anymore, you want to give up and quit! A friendship or a relationship isn't worth saving if you can't save the relationship or friendship!! 

Talking about the lyrics!! What is the meaning of the lyrics? Why is there meaning behind the lyrics? 

Eric Nam wrote a song called "Love Die Young" and I remember listening to the song and when I saw the lyrics and here is how the lyrics go: "What happens when it's over

When we've breathed our last breath

And we've loved each other to death

Can you tell me what happens?

I wonder where love goes

When pleasure turns to pain

When the memories fade away

Can you tell me what happens?

Flowers in your hair now on our grave

A little bit of pressure's all it takes

Shoulda known we'd shatter 

That we'd break, break

Maybe I'm the one that we should blame

For never thinking we'd end up this way

I don't need answers I need you to stay

Stay

Please don't let this love die young

Please don't let this love die young

If I'm gonna lose someone

Don't let it be you". What is the meaning of the lyrics? The meaning of the lyrics is when a relationship or even a friendship is dying, well in this case, a relationship, there is nothing that person can do to save the relationship!! No matter what you do, if that person doesn't want to save a relationship, just move on and it let it be!! Why is there meaning behind the lyrics? The reason why there is meaning behind the lyrics because the musician wants people to know how he is feeling about things not going well and being in a relationship is hard because you get these questions like "Are we going to make it" or "Are we going to end", just stuff like that and that's hard!! Don't give up on someone who you love or don't end the relationship unless you are certain about ending the relationship!!!

How? 

How can I relate this song to my life? I can relate to this song in my life by loosing relationships with significant others and friendships as well and people in my family as well!! I just couldn't stand the fact that person or people being in and out of my life and for me, the friendship was dying and I couldn't save it by any means because that person didn't care about me or our friendship or that person in my family didn't care about the relationship at all! When you put your time and effort into a relationship or even a friendship and you could sense that it is dying and you don't want it to end but you might have to end it because that person doesn't care, it is hard because you care about that person so much but that person doesn't care about you which is hard but at the end of the day, you need to be selfish and think about yourself and that's it!!

Why?

Why can I relate to this song to my life? The reason why I can relate to this song to my life is because I had to end a relationship with a parent who I thought cared about me but that parent who was always in and out of my life and that parent didn't show up to the most important day of my life which was my baptism! Ending that relationship was hard but it was something that I needed because that person didn't reach out to me and that killed me a lot! I always did the reaching out but never got a response and that's when I gave up! I knew in my heart that I did the right thing for my mental health and for myself as well! I didn't want to but I had to but I'm glad that I did!!

The lyrics relatable to me!

What lyrics are more relatable to me? The lyrics that are more relatable to me is "Maybe I'm the one that we should blame" and "I don't need answers I need you to stay". With the first lyrics, sometimes I blame for the friendship or any relationship ending because I can't keep a conversation going or maybe, I am not good enough which is hard to me!! With second lyrics, I don't want answers, I just want people to stay in my life instead of coming in and out of my life! I rather have people in my life than someone who comes in and out of my life! I don't want to get hurt over and over again that is hard!! 

Why?

Why are those lyrics relatable to me? The reason why those lyrics are relatable to me is because sometimes, I blame myself for either not being a good friend or I gave it my all in the friendship or the relationship, but that person didn't care and it broke my heart so much!! The other reason why the second and final lyrics are relatable to me is because I don't want answers, I just want that person to stay in my life! I don't want that person to leave me because once you leave my life, then I can't have you back in my life! I don't accept people who I want back in my life! I want people who will support me and love me for who I am and be there for me!!

My advice!! 

If I have any advice about saving a love between someone, what would my advice be? If I have any advice about saving a love between someone, my advice would be if you and your significant other is working out and you are trying to save it, my advice is try to talk about y'all's problems instead of keeping inside bottled up!! When you keep your feelings bottled up and not talking about it, you explode and that's not good for a relationship at all! If y'all have zero communication, then the relationship isn't going to last long and y'all are going to have problems along the way!! Talk about y'all's problems, instead of keeping them inside of you!! Talk about what's going with your significant other or even your family because you and your family can have communication problems as well!! Talk to your family or significant other, instead of keeping everything inside of you!!

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because if you keep everything inside you and you don't communicate with your family or significant other about what is going on or what's bothering you, then there is going to be big problems and it is not going to be good!! Communication is key to any kind of relationship and if you don't have communication in your relationship or friendship or even in your family, there is going to be big problems and everything can go south quickly, so always communicate with the people who you love because again, communication is key and that is very important in my eyes!!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, when I listen to "Love Die Young" by Eric Nam, I think about me trying to save a relationship or even a friendship in my life time, but people don't care about me and it hurts to know that I am willing to save a relationship or a friendship and that person doesn't care and it hurts me so much but what I do realize that the people who I care about, will fight to stay in my life, no matter what and I appreciate that a lot!! This song is so meaningful and so powerful! It is sad but sometimes, you can't save relationships or friendships because sometimes friendships and relationships can't be salvageable at times and you need to work hard to fight for that friendship or relationship!! Here is my tip of the day: my tip of the day is if you can't save your friendship or relationship, just give up because if that person is not willing to save that relationship or friendship and they don't care to save it, then give up because they are not willing to care and they will not care about your feelings and that's not what you need!! You need people who will fight for you and love you for who you are!!! I love each of my Blogger Dreamers so much and I will fight for y'all, no matter what!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of the song is if your relationship isn't salvageable and you don't see the point of saving the relationship, don't give up but instead talk about the problems and then go off of those problems! If the problems are not fixable, then y'all are not good for each other! Sometimes, a relationship is not fixable and that's okay! If y'all are not meant to be together, God might have someone else in store for you and that's okay! For me, I didn't find love again until after my relationship with my ex and I am happy as I can be!! Don't give up on love because it is somewhere, just be patient!! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: In Psalm 27:13, it says "I believe that I shall look upon the goodness on the Lord in the land of the living". I absolutely love this bible verse a lot God gave us a place to live and we need to live how he made us and how we should live! God made us differently and I am going to live my life how God wanted to live my life!! I love y'all so much and on Wednesday, I will be talking about my poem "Giving others kindness". I hope everyone will have a happy Monday or in other countries, a happy Tuesday and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all next time! I love y'all and stay safe! Peace!! ☮✌💜

Today's bible verse of the day! Such a good bible verse and I love it a lot!!! 

Lyrics to "Love Die Young" by Eric Nam!! The lyrics are sad but meaningful!! 

"You rushed to love me, then you rushed to leave".
-Unknown. I find this quote relatable because you rush to love someone but you have the audacity to leave that person and that's not right at all! Don't love someone and especially in rush because it is not going to work!!

"Tell me every
terrible thing 
you ever did, 
and let me love you anyway". 
-Unknown! I love this quote because even though you love that person, you are willing to listen to them on what they have done that was terrible!!! No matter how terrible that thing is, you are willing to stay with that person!! 

To end today's blog episode, for this week's song of the week, I chose "Love Die Young" by: Eric Nam! I love this song so much but it is so sad but if a relationship isn't working, end the relationship!! 


 

                                           💙 Blog: Analyzing my poem "you are loved" by Brandee Marie Darden!! 💜 Friday, 9/8/23

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Friday or in other countries, happy Saturday!! Never give up and always keep going, no matter what! Before I get into today's blog episode, let's do a recap of Wednesday's blog episode!! On Wednesday, I did a special blog about me and my boyfriend's friendship! On Wednesday, it was our 3 year friendship anniversary and to think we have have been friends that long is unbelievable! He is my best friend, no matter what! He loves me for who I am and I am so blessed to have him as my best friend forever and my boyfriend as well! If y'all haven't read that blog and would love to check it out, it is called "Me and Aaron's friendship". Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much!! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "you are loved" by Brandee Marie Darden! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about this poem and what it means to me, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind? When someone isn't showing you love or say "you're not worthy of love", how does that make me feel? Why does that make feel a certain way? To my Blogger Dreamers who are struggling with self love or struggling with feeling loved, what is my advice? Why would I give those advices to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without any further ado, let's get our blogging imagination on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about my poem! What is this poem about? Why did I write this poem about? 

On Tuesday, June 27th of this year, I wrote a poem called "you are loved" and this is how my poem goes: "You are loved" by; Brandee Darden!

"You are loved 

by many people! 

There are so 

many people who 

love and care 

about you! 

It might not 

feel like it, 

but believe me!

You are loved!

Be proud of 

who you are! 

Don't be afraid 

of being who you 

are because 

God made you

who you are!
You are Loved"!

Love, Brandee Marie

Darden! 

Date of poem written on: Tuesday, 6/27/23!! What is this poem? This poem is all about being loved! You might not feel like no one loves and cares about you but trust me, I love and care about you because I will cheer on my Blogger Dreamers! I care about y'all more than anything in this world and I want what is best for my Blogger Dreamers! I'm proud of you because you woke up this morning! I'm proud of you because you made your bed! You're doing great!! I love you!! Why did I write this poem about? The reason why I wrote my poem about being loved because you are loved! People might not tell you they are proud of you or they love you, but just know deep down in your heart that I love you and I want what is best for you because I want you to know whatever you are going through, I care about you and I love you for who you are! Don't be ashamed of who you are!! 

What comes to mind? 

When I think about this poem and what it means to me, what comes to mind? When I think about this poem and what it means to me, the first thing that comes to mind is telling people that they are worthy of love and they deserve to be loved! When you or someone else tells people that they are not worthy of love and they aren't worthy, it feels like a slap in the face to them and it hurts them! Everyone is worthy and everyone is worthy of love! The second thing that comes to mind the title of my poem! Everyone is loved in their own way! Everyone loves a little different and that's okay! Some people love a little different and some people don't love at all! The third and final that comes to mind is the meaning behind this poem! The meaning or what this poem is about is being loved! When I think about the word "love", I think about showing love to others the way you show it! Like I said before, some people show love by being there for that person or writing notes to other people who they love! You can be loved in so many ways! Show people how you love!! 

Why? 

Why does it come to mind? The first reason why the first thing came to mind is because when you tell someone that they are worthy of love and they deserve to be loved, I want them to know they will always be worthy of love and they deserved to be loved! If someone doesn't tell you that "you're worth being loved or I love you", well I'm here to tell you that you're worthy of love and you deserve to be loved because I love you and I care about y'all so much!! The second reason why the second thing came to mind is because when I think about the title of my poem, I think about people telling me that I'm loved or I tell people that they are loved and I want my Blogger Dreamers to know they are loved and they have someone who cares them so much and that is me!! I care about each of my Blogger Dreamers so much and I want y'all to know that you are loved because this Blogger Queen loves you from the bottom of her heart!! The third and final reason why the third thing came to mind because I want my Blogger Dreamers to know that there is meaning behind this poem and that people show their love different ways and that's okay but just know that whoever shows you love, make sure it's true love, not fake love!! 

My feelings when someone isn't showing you love or say "you're not worthy of love"!! 

When someone isn't showing you love or say "you're not worthy of love", how does that make me feel? When someone is showing you fake love or say "you're not worthy of love", it hurts me a lot! Everyone deserves to have real love in their life and everyone is worthy of love! Don't ever you are not worthy of love or you deserve fake love because everyone is worthy and everyone is worthy of love! People are hateful and people will show different love! With me, I tell people like in my family that "I love you" instead of "love you" because to me, they have different meanings in my eyes and I know that I will always say "I love you" to my family and I know that I might get a "love you" or "I love you" but either way, everyone is worthy and I love y'all from the bottom of my heart!!

Why?

Why does that make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way because no one should never make someone feel not worthy but make them feel like they deserve the right love and acceptance! What makes me sad today is when someone comes up to another person and say "you don't deserve love" or "you are worthless", that's a stabbed in the heart! Everyone and I mean everyone isn't worthless and if you feel that way, get it out of your head because you're not and if anyone doesn't love you, I love you because I care about each and of my Blogger Dreamers so much! You are amazing in your own way and I care about y'all so much! Don't listen to people are ignorant and who are jerks because those are the people who are miserable with their lives and they need someone to love them but don't know how because they are making everyone around them miserable! Don't make anyone around you miserable!! Make everyone love you for who you are!!

My advice!! 

To my Blogger Dreamers who are struggling with self love or struggling with feeling loved, what is my advice? To my Blogger Dreamers who are struggling with self love, here is my advice for y'all: My advice is I know what it is like to not love myself but that's okay! You will get there and I'm here for y'all, no matter what! It can take months or even years to love yourself and that's okay because you deserve to love yourself and don't listen to people are going to bring you down because I care about y'all so much! To my Blogger Dreamers who are struggling with feeling loved, I understand you completely! I get it! I am going through that right now and my only advice is focus on the ones who do love you because if you focus on the people who do love you, they will show you what kind of love that you deserve! You will always be loved by me!! 

Why? 

Why would I give those advices to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give those advices to my Blogger Dreamers is because I want them to know that they are never alone and that, it can take months to love yourself and that's okay! It took forever for me to love myself but I realized that I need to love for who I am because I am worthy of love and as for people who don't love you, focus on the ones who loves you because if you focus on the ones who do love you, they will give you the proper love that you deserve and be there for you, no matter what! Those people who care about you, they do love you!! Never forget that!!

In closing/ tip of the day!! 

In closing, you are loved! You are worthy! There are people who do love and care about you! You are worthy of love and don't focus on the people who don't love you because if you are going to focus on those people, they are going to drag you down and that is not good for your mental health at all! Focus on the good people and don't focus on the bad people! Here at the Blogger Dreamers, you are loved and you are definitely cared by me! My tip of the day is don't let anyone tell you that "you're not worthy of love" or that "you're not good enough" because you are good enough and I love you for who you are! Don't give up and don't quit because I'm here to support you through everything because I care and I will support you through everything! Don't quit! You got this! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode for today! The moral of the blog is just know that you are loved and I care about y'all so much!! Don't give up and don't quit! Ignore the people who don't love you and focus on the people who do love you because those people deserve your attention, not the people who doesn't love you but drag through the mud! Don't be around those people! Don't be around people who don't care about you! Be around people who do love you and care about you! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Let's put a distance between us. We are capable of anything. So let's try this as well". -Baek Yi Jin. I find this quote very relatable because sometimes, you have to put a distance between the people who don't care about you and that's okay! It's okay to distance people who don't care and love you! You don't need people like that in your life! I love y'all so much and I hope everyone will have a great day or I hope everyone had a great day! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all next week on my makeup and fashion blog page, so stay tuned for that!! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜

Today's quote of the day!! Such a good quote and very relatable! You just need to distance yourself from people who don't love you and who don't care about you!!

My poem that I wrote on Tuesday, June 27th of this year!! This poem holds a special place in my heart and yes, I might say that with every poem that I have written, but this poem definitely holds a special place in my heart!! 

 "Just a reminder
in case your mind is playing 
tricks on you today.

You matter.
You're important.
You're loved.

And your presence 
on this earth makes a 
difference whether 
you see it or 
not". 
-Unknown! I love this so much because I don't know who needed this but just know that people need you on this earth and there are people who love you so much and who cares about you so much! Don't give up! It's not worth it!! 

"You are 
Braver than 
you believe, 
Stronger than
you seem,
smarter than 
you think,
Loved more 
than you'll
ever know".
-Winnie The Pooh! I love this quote because you might be going through something tough, but you are brave! You are so strong  and everyone is smart in their own way and everyone is loved more than they will ever know!! 

To end today's blog episode for today, here is this week's song of the week!! For this week's song of the week, I chose Jamais Vu by BTS, Jin, JK, and J-Hope! This song is so beautiful and so soft! I love how Jin and JK and J-Hope all compliment with each other and I love this song so much!! Such an amazing song!! 

                                                 ♡  Blog topic: Me and Aaron's friendship anniversary!! by: Brandee Marie Darden! Wednesday, 9/6/23! 💙 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that comes to mind whether it is talking about my poems or even songs that I like! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that I am here for y'all if y'all need anything! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about helping others! Couples edition! I believe in helping your partner out and I believing in hyping your partner up as well! No matter what they are going through, just help them the best way that you can! If y'all haven't read that blog and would love to check it out, the blog is called "Talking about helping others! Couples edition". Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! Now, today's blog episode is extra special because on this blog episode, I will be talking about me and Aaron's friendship anniversary! On this blog, I will be talking about in honor of our friendship, how has our friendship change? Why has our friendship change like that? What has been my favorite part about our friendship? Why is that part my favorite about our friendship? If I have any advice about getting into an relationship with your friend, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's get our blogging imagination on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

How did we first met? Why did we meet that way? 

How did we first met? Me and my boyfriend, Aaron met through a mutual friend on Instagram! He came into my dms and private message me on Instagram and then, we moved from Instagram through snapchat! The first reaction when he messaged me was "should I message him back" and I surely did! I don't regret messaging him back or anything like that because as time goes on, my feelings became strong for him and I feel like in my head, I could see myself with this guy and I knew that God had sent him in my life!! Why did we meet that way? I think we met that way is because it was God telling me "This is the guy for you! If you don't talk to him, some girl will steal him away" and I am glad that we started talking about becoming closer with each other! He is an amazing person and I wouldn't trade it for the world!! 

Friendship changed!! 

In honor of our friendship, how has our friendship change? I think Aaron's and I friendship has changed a lot! We went from talking from everyday to video chatting every Monday and Friday and on top of that, we are boyfriend and girlfriend! That changed a year ago but to me, he will always be my best friend! I will always have that in my mind that he will always be my best friend and the best boyfriend in the world! I think our friendship changed a lot but in a good way!! I'm happy to be with him and I know that he is happy to be with me!!

Why? 

Why has our friendship change like that? I think the reason why our friendship has changed like that is because I think through the course of our friendship, we started to get feelings for one another and I feel like for him, he was "I want her to be mine" and he wasn't giving up and for me, I was hesitant at first because I was broken up which was hard but he understood! He never stopped being there for me and he will never stop being there for me which I love about him! He has this trait in him that I love where he will stop anything to make sure that person is okay and I love that about him! He is also funny which I also love about him! I never had made me laugh so hard until I met Aaron and he changed my life for the better! I'm glad that I have someone who is my best friend and the best boyfriend ever!

My favorite part of our friendship!!  

What has been my favorite part about our friendship? I think my favorite part of our friendship is getting to know him more and more everyday and how he can make me laugh! For me, I think getting to know someone and getting to know how they are can be good or bad but for me, getting to know Aaron has been amazing! He is different from any guy that interacted with and he knows how to make me laugh which I think is very important when it comes to friendship and relationship! When I was getting to know him, I was thinking to myself "man, he is different from the guys that I met! Where was he when I needed someone". Most guys wouldn't care about me but for Aaron, he cares about me and he wants to make sure that I'm okay which I love about him! I think for me, he is protective when it comes to me! The way we joke around and the way he makes laugh is the best medicine for me! He is so funny in so many ways that I only know and the people he knows know!! 

Why? 

Why is that part my favorite about our friendship? The reason why getting to know him and how he can make me laugh is my favorite part of our friendship is because when you are getting to know a person, you know what their personality is like or what kind of person they are or how funny they are and for me, I found out very quickly how he can be a caring person and how funny he can be! In my eyes, he is so funny and he will pray for the people he cares about which I love! I love how he is a Christian guy because most guys that I can think of doesn't care about church but with Aaron, he is a big part of his church and I love that about him! He is such a caring and such a charismatic guy which you don't find in a lot of guys! I am so blessed that I can be his best friend and the best boyfriend in the world!! 

My advice! 

If I have any advice about getting into an relationship with your friend, what is my advice? To my Blogger Dreamers who have a crush on their guy best friend or girl best friend, here is my advice: Make sure he or she likes you! If he or she likes you, then that is a good thing! If he or she is caring, makes you laugh, and helps you get through anything that you are going through even if you told them to leave you alone and they stayed, then they are a keeper! I told my boyfriend to leave me alone and stay away from me, but he stayed by my side and I knew he was a keeper in the beginning!! I knew how much he cared about me and I knew we were meant to be together but I didn't know how he would handle me with my mental health issues and my anger but to this day, he stayed by my side! If you have a guy friend or girl friend that is very caring, keep them because that is hard to keep these days and there isn't a lot of guys or girls who aren't caring and that's very sad!!

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I don't want my Blogger Dreamers to feel like they are in a one sided love because if you are in a one sided love where you love your guy or girl best friend and they don't love you in a romantic way, then chances are they are not into which is hard to handle but someone out there will love for you for who you are and will be there for you no matter what! Don't be stuck in a one sided love because those are hard and I don't want any of my Blogger Dreamers to be in a one sided love! If that person loves you and you love them, chances are y'all are meant to be and y'all might be together forever!! Don't give up hope!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, happy 3 year friendship to my best friend and to the best boyfriend in the world! Aaron, you came into my life unexpectedly and I am so blessed that God gave me in to put in my life! Happy 3 years of friendship! Cheers to many years!! When you have a friendship and then, it becomes a relationship, that is the best kind! When you become friends with someone and they have a crush on you, you start to realize if y'all are meant to be together and in the back of your mind, we are! I told my boyfriend one time that we were just meant to be best friends and nothing more but God had more in store for me because last year, my best friend became my boyfriend which I am so blessed that he did! The way he cares about me and the way he makes me laugh, I feel like I don't deserve him but in my head, I do! I am so blessed that I have someone who I can talk to about anything that comes to church or just talk with in general! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is don't be stuck in a one sided love! If your guy friend or girl friend doesn't like you in a romantic way, then find someone who loves you for who you are because you deserve someone who will treat you well and be there for you through your hard times! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind y'all that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode because I know that I did! This blog isn't just a normal blog to me but this blog is special to me! 3 years ago today, my boyfriend became my best friend and seeing our friendship grow and blossomed each and everyday is a blessing within itself!! Having him in my life has been the best thing ever! I am so happy that he is my best friend but also my boyfriend who can make me laugh everyday!! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "What doesn't fit you always become a problem". -Lee Geun Young! I love this quote because when nothing fits you or the clothing becomes to big, then you just have to go shopping or when you have a conflict with someone and you don't know how to handle the situation, you try to handle it in your own way which is walking away and that is the best way to handle it! I love y'all and I hope everyone will have a happy Wednesday or in other countries, a happy Thursday and I will see y'all on my next blog episode! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and stay fabulous and stay you! I love y'all! Peace! ☮✌💙

Today's quote of the day! Such a good quote!!! 

"Find someone who wants 
to invest in you, learn from
you, see you win, support your
visions, and fall in love
with you daily".
-Unknown! Such a relatable quote because throughout me and my boyfriend's talk, I was thinking to myself "I feel like I found someone who can support me" and I did! When I do my blogs or tiktoks, he always wishes me good luck and I am blessed to have someone like him!! 

My tiktok video that I did about me and my bf's relationship changed over the years? I feel like it has changed over the years but in a good way! I am happy that he is best friend and someone who I can be with for the rest of my life! Such a huge blessing in my life!! 

"The best relationships are 
the ones that are 
based on friendships
Be friends first".
-Unknown! I love this quote so much because before you get into a relationship, become friends first because when you become friends with that person, it will grow as a relationship! Be friends first! Don't jump into things to quickly!!