🫢 Blog: Why do I stay quiet at times? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 10-29-25!! This blog episode is dedicated to the ones who stay quiet and don't have a lot to say! This blog episode is for y'all! 🫢 
Intro to my blog!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for the day where I talk about anything that is on my mind! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through, just know that I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for the day? I hope y'all are because y'all better buckle up and fastened your seatbelts because it is going to be a bumpy ride but 1st, a blog recap! On Monday- I analyzed a song called "Free" by: Ejae and Andrew Choi, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, this song is from the Netflix movie called "Kpop Demon Hunters". When I listen to this song, I think what comes to mind is how safe and free to have people who will make you feel safe and free! You don't have to "pretend" to be anyone else around those people!! Want to know more about this blog episode? I will leave the link right here: →"Free" by: Ejae and Andrew Choi, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! ← Link right here! I hope everyone will enjoy! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about why do I stay quiet? This blog episode is dedicated to the ones who stay quiet and don't have a lot to say! This blog episode is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about what are 3 reasons why I stay quiet at times? Why are those my reasons to stay quiet at times? If someone sees me quiet, what should they do? Why should they do that thing? With that being said, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!
How could I define the word "quiet"? Why do I define the word "quiet" like that?
How could I define the word "quiet"? If I could define the word "quiet", how would I define it? The way that I could define the word "quiet" is someone who doesn't talk much and they stay quiet a lot of times! They might not have a lot to say or they do have a lot to say but they don't want to bother anyone with their thoughts, so they stay quiet a lot of times! I know people who are quiet! They want to say something, but people kept interrupting them and that's sad!! Why do I define the word "quiet" like that? The reason why I would define the word "quiet" like that is because people tend to stay quiet and there are people who won't have a lot to say or they do, but they don't want to verbalize that or they don't want to say anything and that that's hard! When you want to speak, but you can't say anything or get a word in and that's hard!!
3 reasons why I am quiet?
What are 3 reasons why I stay quiet at times? The 1st reason why I stay quiet at times is because there are times where I am tired! I will have days where I didn't have my nap and I will stare into blank space and I want to go to sleep!! If I didn't have my cup of coffee that day, I am also tired!! The 2nd reason why I stay quiet at times is because I don't feel like talking! I will have moments where I don't want to talk and if I don't want to talk, don't make me talk!! I will have moments where I just want to stay quiet and I am okay with staying quiet!! The 3rd and final reason why I stay quiet at times is because I will tried to talk but people will talk over me and that's hard for me, so that's why I don't talk much! There would be times where I can't get a word in but I guess I am okay with that! That's why I am not really good with group chats!! If I try to talk, people will talk over me, so I stay silent!!
Why?
Why are those my reasons to stay quiet at times? The 1st reason why I am quiet is because I am tired and the reason why I am tired is because there will be times where I would get so busy with my blogging to the point where I don't have my nap or morning coffee and there are times where I just want to go to bed early and I am okay with that!! I am okay being this person who wants to read her Bible and then, get to bed a little early! I'm fine with that!! The 2nd reason why I am quiet is because I don't feel like talking and the reason why I don't talking is because there are times where I don't have a lot to say and I am okay with that! I am okay with not having a lot to say because I love being quiet!! The 3rd and final reason why I am quiet is because I will tried to talk but people will talk over me and the reason why I stay quiet is because I am not the person who will try to interrupt that person and if I try to, I feel guilty for doing that and I never want to interrupt a person while they are talking! I try not to interrupt a person because it's rude but people doing to me a lot but that's okay because I'm used to it!!
Sees me quiet?
If someone sees me quiet, what should they do? If a person sees me quiet, they should let me stay quiet unless I want to talk to that person! For me, if a person comes up to me, I will speak to them! I am a shy person at 1st but if you talk to me, I will speak! If I try to go up to a person, I tend to get nervous and I tend to stay shy!! If I am comfortable around you, it means I will talk with you but if I am not comfortable around a person, then it is going to take time for me to open up!!
Why?
Why should they do that thing? The reason why that person should let me stay quiet unless I want to talk to that person is because it takes time for me to open up! It took a while to open up to my fiancé because I was scared to scare him off with my past or if I would talk too much!! People would say I would either talk too much or too little but it would never be enough!! For me, I don't mind talking but if I tried to talk, I would get interrupted and that would be hard for me, so I stayed silent a lot of times!!
In closing/ Tip of the day!!
In closing, I feel like people always wonder I don't talk much and the reason why I don't a lot is because I am either tired or don't feel like talking or if I tried to talk, people tend to talk over me and that's why I tend to stay to myself a lot which I don't mind at all! There are times where me and fiancé would be talking and I would be talking to him but he interrupts me at times and that bugs me so much and I don't like when people do that because if I want to say something, let me something! Don't interrupt me!! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is when I am talking or if you are talking to someone, let them speak 1st and then, you can speak because when you try speak over that person, you are interrupting that person and they tend to lose their train of thought and half the time, that's what happens to me as well! Don't interrupt a person while they speak because that's rude!! I love y'all!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog episode is when you see me quiet, don't talk to me unless I am comfortable talking to you because it might take awhile for to open up! I could sit by myself, not talk to anyone unless they talk to me! If you talk to me 1st, then that's fine because I am willing to talk to you! I am pretty shy at 1st but once I open up, I am okay after that!! Have patience with me!! My quote of the day is by Lauren Fortenberry and it goes something like this: "And she learned to trust again. God would cover her in His grace. God would lead her to His goodness. And never would she face a day without His strength". -Lauren Fortenberry. With God, you can trust him and when you are cover in his grace, he will lead you on the right path of life! His strength is stronger than you think!! God will teach you how trust again because every person is different!! I love y'all and so does Jesus and stay tuned for Friday's blog episode where I will be talking about how do I feel about me and my fiancé's 3 year dating anniversary on Saturday? Stay tuned for that blog post and with that being said, this blogger is out! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's show the world how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! Let's love like Jesus not just today, but everyday!! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Hugs and love- Blogger Queen! ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨
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Today's quote of the day! It takes time to trust and when you have trust in God, you trust him with his grace and his goodness that he has because God's goodness is so good and he will give you strength from day to day! Always trust in God because his knows what is best for you!!  doesn't mean I have nothing to say, it means I don't think you're ready to hear my thoughts". -Unknown. If you see me, chances are I do have a lot to say but I don't you are ready to hear those thoughts because once I pour out my heart to you, it is going to be overflowed and I don't think you are ready for that!! Just saying!!  Stay quiet". -Unknown. I notice everything but I stay quiet a lot of times! I am an observant person! I will observe but I will stay quiet! If I notice a person is sad, I will just go up to them and give them a hug because that's what they need!!!  I'm Not Talking, Doesn't Mean I'm In A Bad Mood. Sometimes I Just Like To Be Quiet". -Unknown. If you don't see talking, I am not in a bad mood! My face might look like it, but deep down, I am not in a bad mood! I am either quiet or I'm tired but if you get into a bad mood, chances are you will feel the wrath of my anger! Just letting you know! Ask my fiancé! He can tell you!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Share God's love wherever you go because people might need it and I pray that you can a light to that person! I love y'all! ✨🩷✨🩷✨🩷✨🩷 |
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