💔 💔 Blog: Why we shouldn't beg people to stay in our life? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 10/8/25!! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who is tired of begging people to be in their lives! This blog episode is for y'all! 🥺🥺 
Intro to my blog!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for the day where I talk about anything from my poems to anything that comes to mind! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through, I am always here for y'all to listen, no matter what! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st, a blog recap of the day! On Monday, I talked about my suicide attempt story!! For my Blogger Dreamers who are new to my blogging journey, I tried to commit suicide in 2018 and that was hard for me! I didn't want to live anymore but I'm glad that I'm here today to tell my story!! Want to know more about this blog episode? Link right here: →My suicide attempt story!! ←Link right here!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about why we shouldn't beg people to stay in our life? This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who is tired of begging people to be in their lives!! This blog episode is for y'all!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about what are 3 reasons to not beg people to stay in our life? Why are those the 3 reasons not to beg people to stay in our life? Out of those 3 reasons, what is the number one reason why we shouldn't beg people to stay in our life? Why is that number 1? Without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!
What is my reasoning why am I tired of people coming in and out of my life? Why is that my reasoning?
What is my reasoning why am I tired of people coming in and out of my life? My reasoning why am I tired of people coming in and out of my life is I am tired of my mental health draining me and I am tired of people just coming as they please! If you are going to support me and love me through everything, stay in my life! Don't make me beg for my life!! Why is that my reasoning? The reasoning why am I tired of people coming in and out of my life is because my mental health is draining me and I am so sick of it! I am tired of hearing from people and then, not hearing from them! I am so sick of it! Why should I watch people walk away from my life? Don't do that to me!! Please, stay in my life!! Don't walk away but if you want to walk away, do it while I am looking away!!
3 reasons!!
What are 3 reasons to not to beg people to stay in our life? The 1st reason why we shouldn't beg people to stay in our lives is of our mental health! If we beg people to stay in our lives, our mental health begins to decline and that's not good for us at all!! The 2nd reason why we shouldn't beg people to stay in our lives is people could be toxic to us! People could be toxic to us and bring us down like the titanic and that's not good at all! The 3rd and final reason why we shouldn't beg people to stay in our lives is the environment that they are in!! Whatever environment they are in, they could bring you down with it and that's not good! If someone is in a toxic environment, they are going to be around toxic people! If someone is in a positive environment, they are going to be in a positive environment!! Don't beg people who are in a toxic environment!!
Why?
Why are those the 3 reasons not to beg people to stay in our life? The 1st reason why we shouldn't beg people to stay in our lives is of our mental health and the reason why is because our mental can decline and that is not good for us at all! If we beg people to stay in our lives, our mental health would be at state and we need to be careful!! The 2nd reason why we shouldn't beg people to stay in our lives is people could be toxic to us and the reason why we shouldn't beg them to stay is because they could bring negative vibes to our lives and we don't need that in our lives! We need people who are positive and who will light up our world!! The 3rd and final reason why we shouldn't beg to stay in our lives is the environment that they are in and the reason why I say that is because when you are around people who are in a toxic environment, they could easily influence you in a negative way and they could tell you something that is out of your character but when you are around someone who is positive, they can influence you in a positive way and I would rather be someone who is a positive influence than a negative influence! I'm just saying!!
Number 1 reason!
Out of those 3 reasons, what is the number one reason why we shouldn't beg people to stay in our life? In my opinion, I think the number one reason why we shouldn't beg people to stay in our life is of our mental health! Our mental health can drain us so quickly and so fast to the point where we are not thinking clearly anymore! We are so used to the people coming and going as they please and it is not good for us!! We need to stop begging people to stay in our lives and destroying our mental health!! We need to take a stand for our mental health and be around people who is willing to stay in our lives!!
Why?
Why is that number 1? The reason why that is number 1 is because when we are begging people to stay in our lives, we are begging people to never leave us but yet, they choose to leave us over and over again and our mental health is getting destroyed day by day and that's not good for us! We need to stop begging people for the sake of our mental health and focus on our mental health! Our mental is important and we need to stop people who is not willing to stay in our life!! If they are not willing to stay in your life, then they are meant to be in your life at all!!
In closing/ Tip of the day!
In closing, we are begging people not to leave us day in and day out but they choose to leave! When they leave you, they are destroying your mental health and it hurting you so much!! Those people could be toxic for your life! If you are around a toxic person, they are going to destroy you and possibly you could end up like them!! We shouldn't be around people who are in a negative environment because if they are negative environment then, their influences could impact you in a certain way and that's not good at all! You don't want that type of a person who will influence you in a negative way!! Be careful who you are around!! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is stop begging people to be in your life because if they don't want to make the changes in their life to make a positive impact in your life, then they are not good for you at all! I love y'all!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog episode is we need to stop begging people to stay in our life because they could be toxic for our well-being or they are just simply not good for us at all and we need to stop being around those people who are too toxic for us! Those people could destroy our mental health and we need to stop begging those people to stay!! Don't let people destroy your mental health!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is from Matthew 5:43-44 and it says "Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;". These Bible Verses are relatable today and the reason why I say that is because we need learn how to love our enemy despite what they have done to us! We need love them and pray for them because we don't what they are going through at the moment, so we need to love them unconditionally and be there for them despite them being ugly to us!! I love y'all and so does Jesus! Stay tuned for Friday's blog episode about where I will be talking about where am I at today? Stay tuned for that and until next time, Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday and let's remember to always "dream Big! Don't ever give up on your dreams" and let's share how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! Let's love like Jesus today and not just today, but everyday!! Hugs and love, Blogger Queen! 💜💜💜
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Today's Bible Verses of the day from Matthew 5:43-44! These Bible Verses are still useful today because we need to learn how to love our neighbour and love our enemies as well! They could be hurting us, but we need to pray for them because we don't know what they are going at this very moment in their life so we need to be nice and be there for them!!  space. Don't beg anyone to stay. Let them roam. What's meant for you will always be yours". -Reyna Biddy. It's okay to give people time or give them space, but it is not okay for you to beg them to stay in your life!! Let them go and live your life!!  fighting for people to love you the right way. Stop investing time in people who don't mind if you stay or leave". -Reyna Biddy. Stop investing in people who don't care what you do with your life because if they don't care or don't care about loving you, then they are a waste of time and energy! Stop wasting energy on those people!!  left to beg people to stay. The ones who want to can stay, rest are free to leave". -Unknown. When you have no energy for people who are begging for you to let them stay in your life but they continually to do the same thing over and over again, you run out of energy quickly and you don't have time for that! Focus on the people who are willing to be there for you because those are the people who is worth fighting for! Just saying! I love y'all from the bottom of heart and please, stay safe out there and love yourself because if people aren't fighting for to stay in their life, then you don't need them! Hugs and love, Blogger Queen! ❤❤❤ |
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