My future book! By: Brandee Darden.

                                      My future book! By: Brandee Darden. Wednesday, March 23rd, 2022! 

Intro to my blog!

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! It's your blogger queen, Brandee here back with another blog episode! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! I hope everyone is doing well and okay. If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! If you are  in school or college and it is exam week for you, my best advice for you is good luck on your exam! You got this! I believe in you 210%. Y'all got this! If you are having a hard week rather it is at work or home or even at school, just know that you are absolutely amazing and everything will be okay! Just pray about it! On Monday's blog, I talked about mental health and how it can take a toll a person? Mental health is not good for a person at all. Even though I haven't been diagnosed with any type of mental illness, but I know that I am struggling mentally to get through each day. I am not afraid to admit it but I am afraid to tell people that I am struggling and that I need help! If you are struggling with mental health and you don't tell anyone, chances are you might need help and you are just afraid to tell anyone about it. Don't be afraid to tell anyone about your struggle with your mental health. Tell them that you need help and they might help you comforting words and help you with your mental health journey. You are never alone on this journey! You have people here for you and supporting you no matter what! I am one of those people who will support you and love you no matter what! On today's blog episode, I will be talking about my future book! Yes! I will be talking about if I wrote a book, what would it be called? Why would I called my book that? What would my book be about? Why would my book be about that? What is the significance about the book name and the significance about what the book is about? Why is the name and the book is about so significant? Would I buy my own book? Why or why not? Let's get started with this blog episode! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about when do I want to start writing a book? Why do I want to start writing a book? 

Has anyone had a dream about writing their own book or even a book that is fiction?? Ever since I started blogging, I have always dreamt about writing my book. I want to write books based on my life or even fiction books as well. Even children books in the future! I love writing a lot and me becoming an author would be a perfect job for me. When do I want to start writing a book? I want to start writing a book in the future like two or three years down the road or even five years. I don't care! I want to write my own book and do book tours around the world one day! Why do I want to start writing a book? The reason why I want to start writing a book is because I think I would release really good books and I feel like me becoming an author would be a dream come true. I want to write books about my life or makeup or skincare tips. Tips about how to get through a breakup or how to get through someone who passed away. Just stuff like that. I want to help people out in the future and tell people that "Whatever you are going through, You are loved and you will always have people here for you no matter what! Becoming an author would be a dream come true and I can't wait to make that dream come true one day! 

If I wrote a book, what would it be called? Why would I call my book that?

If I wrote a book, what would it be called? If I wrote a book, I would call it Brandee: A woman who went through a lot. I love this book title a lot. It holds a lot of significance to me. I went through a lot growing up but I have endure it and I am strong and I am a fighter. Why would I call my book that? The reason why I would call my book that is because growing up, I went through a lot. I went through bullying. I have tried to attempt suicide before which was hard on me. When I was in middle school and high school, I went back and fourth to my dad and mom's house which was really rough on me. I didn't like it at all. It was really hard on me but I got through it and I am very proud of myself for getting through it! I remember through middle school and maybe high school that I was very suicidal and that was hard on me as well because I didn't know how to tell people that "I'm suicidal. I need help." It was very hard for me to tell people that I was going through a lot and with that book title, I could tell my story and tell people what I went through and how I got through it!! 

What would my book be about? Why would my book be about that? 

My book would be about me and what I went through in my life? I would also talk about the struggles that I had to endure along the way and how I got through the pain that gave me through my life. I would also give tips about how I got through the things that I went through in my life. I went through breakups and heartbreaks but those things made me stronger than before. Breakups and heartbreaks are so hurtful and I went through so much when me and my ex boyfriend broke up. It hurt me a lot. Another thing I would talk about in my book is how I cope with a love one who went to go be with Jesus. Loosing a love one is very hard. It is okay to grief and it is okay to cry over them, but just remember that they are not in pain anymore and they are not suffering anymore. You don't want your love one to see you cry. I know it hurts that your love one isn't here anymore but they might not be here in person but they are here in spirit and they are watching over you and they are telling you that they are proud of you. I know that I have people who went to be with Jesus and I know that they are proud of me. Sometimes, I cry over people who went to be with Jesus but I need to remember that they are not in pain anymore. I do miss them everyday but I know that they would be so proud of me! Why would my book be about that? The reason why my book would be about what I went through in my life is because I want to show other women whatever you go through in life, you can be strong and you don't have to give up. Yes, I went through something's that were hard in my life, but I didn't give up. That's not in my blood! I don't quit because quitting isn't in my nature. Never give up and don't quit!! 

What is the significance about the book name and the significance about what the book is about? Why is the name and the book is about so significant? 

The significance about the book name is it means a lot to me. Before I was born, throughout my mom's pregnancy with me, everyone thought I was going to be a boy and I was going to be named after my dad. Well, my older sister, Brandy was like "Nope. It is a girl and you are naming her after me". So, here I am and I am named after my big sister, Brandy which I don't mind at all because I love my big sister a lot. The book title "Brandee: A woman who went through a lot" holds a lot of significance. The name "Brandee" came from my older sister, Brandy and "A woman who went through a lot" came from I went through a lot when I was growing up and it made me stronger and I know that I am a fighter. I don't give up easily and I will never give up! The reason why the name of my book is so significant is because I love my name a lot and I also love the name of my future book. I know that I am a strong woman and yes, I went through a lot but that doesn't mean I should give up like that and just quit. The significance behind about what the book is about is I went through a lot when I was in elementary school, middle school, and high school. I was bullied because of my weight and it was very hurtful but it made stronger. I also went through going back and fourth with my dad and my mom which wasn't fun at all. The reason why the book is about so significant is because to write something that you went through shows a lot of courage and I am not afraid to talk about what I went through in my future book. I want my readers to know that whatever I went through, if they went through the same thing, they can get through it as well. Everyone is strong in their own way and whatever I went through, my readers can get through whatever they are going through as well. Never give up!

Would I buy my own book? Why or why not?

Would I buy my own book? Honestly, yes! Yes, I would buy own book! I would buy own book because that way I can critique my own work. I would give myself a honest review and tell my honest opinion about my own book. I would love to give myself a review and tell myself what I need to work on in my next book and what kind of changes that I need to change and remember for my next book. I don't mind to be own critic at all. I think it is good to be your own critic is because you can critique your own work and remind yourself not to do the same mistakes again!!! You can see it from other people's point of view and you can see what you did wrong and fix it! If you see from other people's point of view and you will be like "Okay, I see it now". If you see it from other peoples point of view, you would totally understand it a lot better and you could see your work from your point of view as well. Not all authors are perfect in writing because they make mistakes as well. With me, before I post my blog, I have to review it first and make sure I don't have any mistakes or make sure it looks good. I like to review my work before I post it and I think I probably would be the same way with my future books because I am that that type of person who loves to review her work!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?

In conclusion, I think if I see my work and someone tells me "Oh! It's good but you need to fix this," I wouldn't believe them but if I read it myself, then a lightbulb moment would pop in my head and would be like "Okay. I can see from your point of view now." It is always good to get feedback from other people but if you see your work from your own perspective, you know that you would probably fix it automatically. With me, I would want my books to make sense and make sure they get my story across! I want to make sure my stories are good and I want to make sure my stories are clean with no mistakes at all. I love writing and I want to make sure my first book is very good and I want to make myself proud by writing my first book with no mistakes but if I do make mistakes in my first book in the future, that's okay. There is always room for improvement! I know that I can always improve and I can get better and better each time!! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is do something that you are very passionate about! Do something that you love to do such as writing stories or even writing music. Do something that you love and that you enjoy doing! My question of the day is If you want to write your first book, what would you call your first book? Why would you call your first book that? What would your first book be about? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know. I would love to read y'all's comments and answer them as well! 

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! If you have a dream about writing your first book, reach for that goal! I believe that y'all can do it and I believe in my Shinning Star Butterflies. If y'all have a different goal in life, that's okay as well. Everyone has a different goal in life and that's fine! As long as your happy with your goals in life, then that is all that matters! Your happiness matters and I want all of my Shinning Star Butterflies to be happy! I love y'all so much and I care about each of y'all so much! I love y'all and I will see y'all in my next blog! Stay Gold! Shine like a bright star that y'all are! Fly like a butterfly and chase your dreams! Your blogger queen is out! Peace! 💙💙

"Kindness 
begins with the 
understanding that 
we all struggle".
-Charles Glassman. I love this quote because everyone struggles and if someone is struggling, ask them if they are doing okay and if they need someone's shoulder to cry on. Let all of your emotions out! 

"Just because I don't always 
share my troubles, doesn't 
mean I don't have them.
At times, I may be fighting
battles you know nothing 
about."
-Unknown. I love this quote because people might think I am totally okay but really, I am fighting my own battles that anyone knows nothing about. I might be struggling with someone but I don't want no one to know because I don't want them to know. 

This is what my book cover would look like! I actually love these two pictures a lot! I have my title and what my book is about on my book cover! I love this book cover a lot! Super cute!!